Addiction, Following Crowd, Like Dislike, Good Bad
Sticking to beliefs, habits is addiction. Acting without understanding, following what is already in mind and never questioning; is addiction. 
Famous quote; 'Padhoge Likhoge Banoge Nawaab, Kheloge Kudoge Hoge Kharab'; is not always right. In my opinion, it should be 50/50; study and activity or practice. 
“If you follow the crowd, you will go no further than the crowd. But if you walk alone, and find your own way, you will likely find yourself in places, no one has ever been before.”
Feeding information in mind and then examination will provide you money. Some beliefs are made and then fed to the minds. One belief is that you need a lot of money and resources to start a business. This is a technique; killing before starting something. Question mark on beliefs, patterns; So called; 'good and bad'; physically and psychologically; is beginning of intelligence. 
Al-Baqara (The Cow) 2:216
كُتِبَ عَلَيْكُمُ الْقِتَالُ وَهُوَ كُرْهٌ لَّكُمْ وَعَسَى أَن تَكْرَهُواْ شَيْئًا وَهُوَ خَيْرٌ لَّكُمْ وَعَسَى أَن تُحِبُّواْ شَيْئًا وَهُوَ شَرٌّ لَّكُمْ وَاللّهُ يَعْلَمُ وَأَنتُمْ لاَ تَعْلَمُونَ
Fighting is ordained (order or decree) for you, even though it be hateful to you; but it may well be that you hate a thing the while it is good for you, and it may well be that you love a thing the while it is bad for you: and God knows, whereas you do not know. 2:216
Possibilities; Na jaye mandan na paye raftan; (you are urged to leave a situation but you can't; tolerate otherwise and can't continue either).
Shifting between good or bad takes no time. Definitions change each and every time. We have to understand the difference between creativity vs. robotic life. Where there's a will there's a way. Learning and growing better is the key; if you can learn even from bad things, that's great. If you can't learn from good things, that's not great.
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Fundamentals of Failure and Success

There are two ways to deal with failures in life; a) be courageous, accept your mistake, take responsibility and try again b) Blame others; family, luck, in this case you will be part of crowd. This crowd is jealous of life style of others and keeps on finding excuses and looking for sympathies of others. Successful people strive for the solutions. Unsuccessful people hide themselves behind excuses and misconceptions; poverty, low esteem family, friends, relatives, age, weakness, illness, not getting opportunity, bad luck. Failed people live life with excuses. Successful people take responsibility, improve their approach, learn from others and their mistakes. Any hardships you are facing has already been gone through any successful person. They tried again and found the way. They didn't got excuses to stop them. There are list of names; present and in history. Your option today; taking responsibility or excuses; will decide your tomorrow. Excuses are a good game for children. This game is not for adults. Excuses are like virus or termite (deemak). Find solutions, not excuses.

Behaving arrogantly with the people

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